Sunday, October 11, 2015

THE OVERRATED MAHAAN NAARI

After following Indrani Mukerjea's case has set  my curiosity  afire. I believe that  the concept of the "mahaan Bhartiya Naari" is overtly hyped. Isn't  the Man  as sensitive  or as human as his counterpart??
 Looking everywhere the debate goes on  as to Who is the real culprit to evoke  domestic violence on the daughter in law. Is it really  her husband or the mother in law in most cases? The  greedy face of dowry is most certainly mainly abused by the  quintessential  mom in law followed closely by her daughter at her heels.

       I have always been the hyper emotional hopeless romantic , who believes in Hum Saath Saath Hain  fairy tale happy ever afters who more than sobs every time  there is feel good factor  anywhere. The sight o f the Taj moves me  to tears and I am an embarrassment  at weddings ,Thus  my eyes have searched  for the perfect sugary family sagas to keep my faith  justified. and  ticking.

 Why does the silent contribution of the other members go unnoticed. The father  who has not bought a  branded clothing for some time as he is  saving  for the kids education, the elder brothers who have borne responsibility  of their younger siblings in trying times, the  freedom fighters who sacrificed their lives for the nation, the soldier who unblinkingly sits atop the hill top guiding our frontiers, ...... Aren't we all doing our duties ? I am sure all the men are smiling now...... this statement  coming straight from the horses mouth.... 

Seriously  and frankly I feel greatness is what greatness does. It definitely has nothing to do with gender. Why then such a hail for all the Mahaan Naris , I wonder! 



Thursday, September 24, 2015

The Journey begins !


HI. So here I am  literally bursting with ideas  of what can I post .. sooo excited . So ,  I formally welcome myself... have stood up, pirouetted  :)  and given myself  a pat on th back... and sat down to commence  on a most wishful venture of late. : TO start a blog...

I plan to post so much on  so many subjects.. shall start with my mission to lose weight . Starting from tomorrow I plan to put everything on record for  motivation...